Caregiver Stress – Is Your Health In Danger?

  • Have you turned into a “sour puss” since becoming a caregiver?
  • Are you too “stressed out” to be nice?
  • If you’re buried under caregiver stress, is your health in danger?

Does Caregiver Stress Bring Out The Jekyll And Hyde In You?

I don’t know about you but when I’m “stressed out”, people need to “watch out!!”  Let me share with you why family and friends have given me a wide berth lately.

My mom has some health conditions which need constant attention.  We have had an ongoing conversation about her moving into an assisted living facility.  (Actually, for the past two years I have talked, and she has turned a deaf ear.)


Three months ago mom called me and said she needs to move from her senior apartment.  She just can’t handle living there anymore and wanted to move in with me…


It’s hard to say which of us was more shocked that I said NO.

Ten days later mom moved out of her senior apartment anyway.  Her next place, in my opinion, was a disaster waiting to happen.  I helped her move in spite of my misgivings, for my own reasons:

  1. To lessen her stress
  2. Keep the lines of communication open
  3. Check out the place for myself
  4. Meet her room mate

Remember how I thought mom’s choice was a disaster waiting to happen?

Disaster struck and mom is moving again in two weeks!!

Talk about turning into Jekyll and Hyde from caregiver stress!!

Out Of Control Caregiver Stress Have Doctors Working Overtime

It’s not secret that stress can wreak havoc on our bodies. Stress has been linked to:

  • high blood pressure
  • insomnia
  • obesity
  • depression
  • and a host of other conditions we should avoid

It has been estimated that at least 90% of doctor’s visits are for conditions in which stress plays a role.

Four Simple Ways To Manage Caregiver Stress Levels

Don’t you just love it when people tell you what you should do, but not how to do it?  We’ve all heard time and time again that we should eliminate the stress in our lives, but where’s the how to’s?

Most of us caregiver’s realize that stress comes with the territory.  While we can’t eliminate all caregiver stress, we can manage it better.  Check out these four simple ways to bring your stress levels down within minutes.

  1. Prayer & meditation
  2. Breathing exercises
  3. Physical exercise
  4. Keeping a journal

Sometimes we overlook simple solutions to our everyday problems.  Why not try one of these tips to take control of your caregiver stress and improve your health?  What have you got to lose?

I’m using multiple techniques to try and get a handle on my caregiver stress.  I’ll share with you in another post in detail what’s working for me.  If you have a handle on caregiver stress, please share your tips with us fellow caregivers by leaving a comment  or connecting with me on and .     I’d love to hear from you.

By the way…

If you have tips on dealing with “caregiver guilt”, share those with the caregiving community too.  I’ll share some of mine in the next post: “Burdened With Caregiver Guilt?- 3 Sure Fire Ways To Send Caregiver Guilt Packing”.    Let’s compare notes!!

Till next time,

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4 Responses to Caregiver Stress – Is Your Health In Danger?

  1. Clecira says:

    great way of exposing your ideas, you made a good job in this website.

    • wildred says:

      Clecira thank you for leaving a comment. I will be doing future posts on caregiver stress and I welcome feedback.

  2. Cecy says:

    thanks for your excellent review.

    • wildred says:

      Cecy I appreciate your comment on the post. Are you experiencing high stress as a caregiver? I was just wondering if that is why this
      particular blog post invited your comment.

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